Planning a wedding is exciting, but when your fiancé is serving in the Navy, even simple things like choosing a wedding ring require extra thought. I remember when my partner was deployed; I wanted to find a ring that symbolized our commitment but was also safe and practical for life on a ship. It turned out to be quite the journey!
The first thing I learned was that traditional metal rings can actually be dangerous on a naval ship. I was initially planning on getting a classic metal band, but then I started researching. I heard stories about rings getting caught on equipment, leading to serious injuries. One person I knew told me about a shipmate whose ring got snagged on a ladder, and they had to cut it off! The scar tissue later prevented him from ever wearing a ring on that finger again. That really made me rethink my initial plan.
Furthermore, depending on the job, jewelry might not even be allowed. I realized I needed to consider what my fiancé actually could wear versus what I wanted him to wear. This meant prioritizing safety and practicality over pure aesthetics.
My search led me to explore several alternatives. After a lot of research, I discovered that many people in the Navy opt for silicone rings. These rings are flexible, comfortable, and, most importantly, they break easily under pressure, preventing serious injuries. I also considered a simple silver band as a backup, something he could wear when he wasn't on duty or when regulations allowed.
Another option I considered was getting several inexpensive copies of a ring he liked. That way, if one got lost or damaged, it wouldn't be a big deal. I also heard about Qalo rings. They have some cool designs, but honestly, I thought they were a bit overpriced. Instead, I found a pack of silicone rings from SA that I've been wearing for years now and they are still in great condition. I figured if they worked for me, they might work for my fiancé too.
Ultimately, I decided to get my fiancé several silicone rings. They were a great compromise between safety, comfort, and style. He could wear them on duty without worrying about getting hurt, and he still had a symbol of our commitment. Plus, they were affordable, so if he lost one, it wouldn't be a huge financial loss.
While the wedding ring was the main focus, I also wanted to find other pieces of jewelry that he could wear off-duty to remind him of me. That's when I discovered Sumsfashion. They have a wide variety of unique charms and jewelry, and I was particularly drawn to their animal-themed collection.
I ended up getting him a bamoer Animal Authentic 925 Sterling Silver Cute Little Sloth Charm to add to a bracelet he already owned. It was something small and personal that he could keep with him, even when he couldn't wear his wedding ring. It wasn't flashy or expensive, but it was meaningful. He really appreciated the gesture. It’s a fun, subtle way to carry a piece of home with him, and the quality from Sumsfashion is surprisingly good.
Based on my experience, here are some key considerations when choosing a ring for someone in the Navy: